A Horrible Bride Confession

Here it is wedding Wednesday but more importantly 78 days until our wedding and I have a huge bridal confession: I have no wedding dress ….. Yes yes I know all of you have a look of horror on your face. 

See the thing is I’ve tried on dress after dress and thought ‘wow this is really beautiful’ but none of them, not a single one has moved me 😦 I have a dress  with a small deposit on it but I have no intentions on going back to that boutique and getting that dress because I’m just not in love with it. And trust me I’ve been searching high and low, far and wide for something to catch my eye but there has been NOTHING. So now I’m almost at then end of my rope and time is ticking and in my attempt to not settle for a dress that looks like what I’ll actually be doing. Settling. Suggestions anyone please?!

Peace. Love. & Wine

Sami ❤

Ipsy January Glam Bag Review

Ok so what makes a sad bride happy? Makeup! Lol the highlight of yesterday was receiving my ipsy monthly glam bag. Lucky for me I took a nap this afternoon so it’s almost 1 in the morning and I’m playing in makeup 🙂 

  
Here is what I received in my bag

  1. City Color’s eyeshadow trio in Falling Leaves
  2. Smudge brush by Beau Gâchis
  3. Mr. Write (Now) eyeliner crayon in Jac
  4. Ofra eyebrow pencil in Universal 
  5. Hanalei sugar lip scrub

*this months makeup bag is super cute as well*

Here I am wearing the eyeshadow, which I absolutely LOVE.  The eyeliner crayon does not compliment my skin tone and kinda just fades away. So sad cause I was hype about a gold eyeliner. Loved the smudge brush, does its job plus a girl could never have too many brushes lol. The eyebrow pencil is my top favorite along with the eyeshadow. Went on very smooth. The lip scrub is nothing to rave about, but I’m not complaining because it’s an essential. All in all this month was a good month with Ipsy. Here’s my finished face:   

 

 
   
   

Love. Peace & Wine. 

Sami ❤

Wedding-less Wednesday

h-ANGRY-BRIDE-960x540Wednesday’s are all about weddings. I wake up excited to read the goings on of all you future brides and I was hoping to share my update with you all as well. But I have nothing to update, my wedding coordinator was supposed to call me this morning and I never heard from her. Derrick and I are having trouble finding a parking lot for our guests and transportation to get them to the cruise port. The fact that no one shuttles to the cruise port is becoming way more of a problem then we ever imagined. Also, we have finalized the guest list (60 in total) and want to begin paying for the reception but I have found out not only do I need the correct full name of all my guests, but I also need their date of birth, country of citizenship, what type of identification they’ll be presenting and the identification number *bangs head on laptop* I can only pray that my actual wedding day will be so beautiful it will take away from all the headaches and stress caused by getting married on a cruiseship. Oh another thing, to make my silk flowers will be, if not the same price, a bit more expensive then just getting the bridesmaids bouquets from Royal Caribbean. So fresh flowers it is (one less thing for me to worry about) I was losing my mind in Micheal’s trying to put bouquets together. *takes a deep breath*…… I hope all my fellow brides-to-be have had a better week of wedding planning than we.

Peace. Love & (and lots of) Wine

Sami ❤

Bridesmaids…Who? How Many?

Bridesmaids-Gallery-12Bridesmaids are like the second most important thing to a bride…. first is the dress of course. One thing that I’ve learned through this journey of wedding planning is to think things through. I made the mistake of adding girls to my wedding party because one: I have a major case of OCD and the thought of an uneven number caused instant anxiety, two: I didn’t understand the importance of what it meant to be a bridesmaid (not someone who just wants to do all the fun stuff, but also the really tedious and boring stuff like paying for and planning a bridal shower), & three: I didn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. The last one was really important to me, when I told my childhood friend that another friend was going to be my maid of honor it hurt to see the hurt in her eyes, even though she smiled through it. Another friend begged and made so many side comments that I felt bad she wasn’t in the wedding and I added her without even consulting my fiancé. It wasn’t until recently when I remembered who’s wedding it was. Mine. And I don’t mean that in a selfish way, but if you don’t feel comfortable with having certain people in your wedding, don’t do it. It’s hard, trust me I know. I originally started out with five, I now have three, and there were tears involved; LOTS of tears, but now I’m confident that the three women standing next to me at a major milestone in my life understand me and Derrick and how important this day is. Because yes, it is a day of happiness and celebration, but it goes way past this day. This is forever, this is a commitment, this is my life, our life. And just because they’re not IN the wedding doesn’t mean they won’t be there, remember: theres a whole guest list you have! Your bridesmaids are your confidants, your support team, and yes they are supposed to cater just a little bit. So if this day isn’t important to them almost as it is important to you, nix them. And if they still don’t understand and get mad, then they aren’t your friend. When we first got engaged, other married couples told us we would see who is truly there for us during this time. The stories they told me were unbelievable and I thought there was no way that would be my friends and myself. But here I am writing this, it can and most likely will happen that you will lose at least one friend. Thats what happens when major life changes occur, it sucks big time. I’ve been on the other side and honestly I was a terrible maid of honor, it haunts me to this day, even more so now because I’m a bride and I think ‘omg I was so selfish!’. Words of advice to anyone who’s a bridesmaid out there: understand what the bride has asked you to do, she has picked you for a real reason, not because she thinks you’ll look good standing next to her, and not because you have 20 years of friendship under your belt (well maybe a little). She needs you to be there, if you can’t then be a friend, do her a favor and say no. She may be sad at first but you’ll save her a lot of stress you don’t know about.

What are your experiences as a bride with her bridesmaids, or as a bridesmaid? Have you been booted or done the booting?

Peace. Love & Wine

Sami ❤

Bummed Bride

o-WEARY-570This is a piggy back off of another post I read about how after you get engaged you don’t really feel like a bride. Well, in my case I haven’t felt like a bride 85% of the time I’ve been engaged. And now I’m back at that feeling. One thing about a cruise ship wedding is that they take care of all the minor details like flowers, seating arraignments and set up. That stuff accounts for a lot of time spent feeling like a bride and planning your wedding. When I found out that I wouldn’t be speaking to my wedding coordinator until like 3 months bepfore the wedding, I literally freaked out….. full blow bridezilla mode turned on. Not because I didn’t trust them, I just wanted to be involved and I was eager to get the ball rolling on planning. But the food is already picked out, So I can’t do a tasting (bummed), no need to look at center pieces (super bummed) and knowing all this my matron of honor won’t let me help plan the bridal shower (just rude lol ). So here I am, after the excitement of being at 100 days until our wedding has died down and once again I don’t feel like a bride. I don’t go in for my first dress fitting until the end of the month 😦 I’ve found my wedding favors but it’s too soon to buy them, also too soon to buy bridesmaid gifts. I’m making their bouquets but no sense in them laying around the house for three months running the risk of getting ruined. I HAVE NOTHING TO DO! This is the very big down side to getting married on a cruiseship. I’m sure it will be lovely, especially since Royal Caribbean is such an awesome company but still, it makes me sad. What’s a bride to do when she’s feeling unbride like? Go to Pinterest (this is my wedding board), BummedBride & TheKnot and dream of her big day 😦

Love. Peace & Wine

Sami

Shedding for the Wedding 

  
We’ve all seen them, those perfectly proportioned runway brides and we wonder if we’ll ever look as good as them on our wedding day. I can’t promise you perfection but I’ve put together a workout plan to at least make us feel more confident when we go in for that last fitting. I will be doing this 3 month workout plan starting the 1st of January and will post my before and after results at the end of each month. Join me and let’s knock ’em dead on our special day! 🙂

Month 1 Workout Plan

Monday-Friday: (Saturday/Sunday are rest days)

  • 25 squats; weeks 1 & 2 – 50 squats; weeks 3 & 4
  • 25 bicycle crunches; weeks 1&2 – 50 bicycle crunches weeks 3&4
  • 60 sec plank
  • :30second break:
  • 20 fire hydrants (each leg); weeks 1&2 – 40 fire hydrants weeks 3&4
  • 60 sec plank 
  • 25 reverse crunches; weeks 1&2 – 50 reverse crunches weeks 3&4
  • 15 push-ups week 1, 25 pushups week 2&3, 40 pushups week 4
  • :30 second break: then repeat sequence

Bonus* 15 shoulder presses w/ 5 lb dumbbells (as weeks progress advance reps to strength)

Up the ante* add 10 minutes of running every other day